A Nutshell View of Life

 

Life ultimately is the pursuit of happiness. Why am I doing this; Why do I do the things that I want to do; Why do I pursue certain goals or want to hang around with certain kinds of people only? Its because we believe that that will make us happy or give us happiness.

Life certainly is beautiful and living one of the most wonderful experiences. Yet most often than not we end up frustrated, angry, hurt and dejected because we happen to knock the wrong doors swayed by our conceited feelings, emotions and narrow fragmented belief's. Just look at married couples: Do you think that a husband who loves to spend maximum 'good times' with other women, find happiness with his wife? Or a wife wongs and wish that her husband could be like those other men around be contented? Just as there are more beautiful and finely curved ladies or more handsome, caring and loving man than a wife or a husband, the world offers countless attraction for us. We cannot achieve all everything or own all that we set our eyes on.

Just look up the night sky and ponder at the myriad mysteries hidden in all those galaxies of stars. Centuries of exploration can never unravel its mysteries. So also is life and romance and a lifetime is too short a time to unravel the mysteries each moment in life holds. If only a husband or a wife could explore together the hidden secrets of romance, their union will be more exciting a fulfilling, and so also will be our life.

We live in a society of different and distinct personalities, where each individual, irrespective of diversities and social standings, tries to salvage bagful of happiness for themself. As such there is bound to be conflict of ideas and issues, and even resulting in strain relationships. Now one of the beauty of life in our quest for happiness is relationship. Therefore estoration of any broken relationship will be a litmus test towards a fulfilling happiness otherwise we'll be trading a huge chunk of our happiness on the altar of our pitiful ego. Be the factor and bridge the crevice of hatred by letting go your feelings and for all the antagonism, mellow your adversary with love.

Learn to share and propound the value of service, for the grateful smile of a needful person is the real foundation upon which your happiness will stand for eternity. Create, co-operate and build a healthy environment for co-existence and therein you will be paid.